Breaking the Rules

If you haven't been being yourself - now is the time. If you have tailored yourself to someone else's pattern, it is time for you to learn and revert back to being you. Should you find that you are not moving fast enough, then pick up the pace. In essence, you will probably find it beneficial to do opposite of what you are doing now.

I learned to step outside the box a long time ago. I understand the use of varied strategies. Never will I succumb to the notion that there is one way to reach the finish line. I have found that people will dictate to you what they want you to become. When you change for them, they usually have another set of items for you that need adjusting (at least from their perspective). I was astounded by the way men while preface their statements with, " the problem I have with you is..." as if it is really my concern. Don't they know that their opinion of me is none of my business? Should I be living for them or God? It has been said that the first thing a man is attracted to in you is the first thing he wants to change. Why is that so common? Is this an issue of control or what? Who is really confused?