There are two types of people: 1) dreambuilders and 2) dreamkillers. Both push you tremendously but in different directions. The dreambuilders tell you that "you can" whereas the dreamkillers tell you that "you can't". Dreambuilders have mastered the art of serving as cheerleaders by constantly giving praise and reassurance to those in pursuit of their goals. They have lifted and uplifted many to soar among eagles. These individuals have been the topic of discussion for many success stories. On the other hand, dreamkillers have served their purpose of hindering many from reaching their goals. People in this category have shaped a very negative web for almost all of those that follow in their path. Ironically, dreamkillers have also served as a challenge to others causing them to periodically achieve goals at times. That may not have been their intention however someone decided to take that negativity in a positive manner.
Surround yourself with dreambuilders. Pull from their compliments and good will. Give back to them positivity as they've done you.
Avoid the dreamkillers. They will drain you of your self worth. Sometimes it is hard because they are a family members, teachers or friends. If that is the case, limit your interaction with them. What if you can't avoid them? Then build yourself up prior to having encounters with them. Recite positive affirmations and/or pray daily because what they take from you can't always be replaced.
Surround yourself with dreambuilders. Pull from their compliments and good will. Give back to them positivity as they've done you.
Avoid the dreamkillers. They will drain you of your self worth. Sometimes it is hard because they are a family members, teachers or friends. If that is the case, limit your interaction with them. What if you can't avoid them? Then build yourself up prior to having encounters with them. Recite positive affirmations and/or pray daily because what they take from you can't always be replaced.
4 comments:
How true...I certainly will utilize the advice and do better about with whom I share my time.
Again the name of your posts is quite accurate!
Thanks for sharing!!
Sistah IYMS - I left teaching b'cuz of one particular dreamkiller who actually pushed me into my dream life quicker than I may have been here otherwise. But, you're right he was a spirit squasher and I had to get away from him! Some of my friends who while supportive verbally are dreamkillers via association because we're not on the same path & sometimes that's emotionally difficult.
Thanx again for your depth & sensitivity!
DC,
I'm glad this could help you in your relations. It will definitely make a difference. Many blessings!
Capcity,
I didn't go into teaching because of a dreamkiller. One of my sorority sisters interviewed me and literally dogged me out stating I would not be good for teaching inner city youth. She totally squashed my dream.
Remember this, sometimes you have to give up something to receive something in return. Where we are is where we are suppose to be only for this point in time. Every one that start out on our journey will not meet our final destination - thank goodness.
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